That Sickening Moment Every Writer Fears…
You know that feeling when your stomach drops, your heart races, and your inner voice screams, “No… no… NO!” Yeah… that was me… Sunday night. I’d spent Thursday, Friday, and Saturday diving deep into The 51st State—crafting what I believed were some of my most gripping, heart-pounding spy intrigue scenes yet. Government conspiracies, covert ops, […]
13 Anniversary
Thirteen years ago, I was perched on a bench overlooking Costa Rica’s Pacific coast—laptop on my knees, coffee in hand, the surf’s steady roar urging me onward. I was deep into writing A Warrior’s Heart: Perseverance, and every sunrise felt like a personal call to lean deeper into Graham’s journey—and my own. I can still […]
From Loner to Leader: How Two Men Distilled 25 Years of Personal Development into a Life-Changing Program for Men Over 40
The Hard Truth About Growth After 40 If you’re a man between 40 and 60, you’ve done the reps. You’ve got the scars, the stories, and maybe a few questions you’re still wrestling with. You don’t need another motivational meme. You need a map, with strategy, clarity, and guidance from men who’ve walked the terrain. […]
🧊 10 Days Deep: The Warrior’s Path Through the Cold ❄️
Ten days. Ten deliberate plunges into icy water. At the time of writing this, I’ve completed a full ten-day streak of cold plunges—and I’ve got to say, it’s been one hell of a ride. This isn’t about being trendy or tough (though I’ll admit there’s a certain badge-of-honour vibe to it). It’s about showing up. […]
From Loner to Leader: A Man’s Heroic Journey to Wholeness and Purpose
There comes a moment in every man’s life where the ache inside can no longer be ignored. He may have the house, the job, even the partner—yet something still feels off. He lies awake at night wondering, “Is this all there is?” Beneath the achievements and routines lies a quiet longing—a whisper for more. Not […]
Fatherhood and the Spiritual Warrior: Leading by Heart (Even When No One’s Watching)
I don’t have kids of my own.Let’s get that out of the way early. But over the years—as a coach, author, husband, and student of the spiritual path—I’ve had the privilege of watching incredible men step into one of the most sacred roles life offers: fatherhood. And let me tell you… when a man embraces […]
Coming Soon: The 51st State – A Political Spy Thriller That Hits Too Close to Home
I’m beyond excited to share a sneak peek into my upcoming novel, The 51st State — a project that’s been simmering in my soul and on my keyboard for months. If all goes according to plan (and the writing gods smile upon me), you can expect this edge-of-your-seat political spy thriller to hit the shelves […]
Marketing Your Book: Test, Check, Retest (And Knowing When to Put a Shirt Back On)
Well, fellow warriors, sometimes marketing your book can feel like you’re charging boldly into battle—only to realize you’ve left your armour behind. Recently, I launched my newest book cover (An Unregistered Male) with enthusiasm, excitement, and apparently a complete misreading of my audience. My cover featured a striking (okay, let’s be honest—half-naked) man, drenched in […]
Remembering My Mom
Sitting quietly with my thoughts today, I find myself drawn to memories of my mom. She lived with kidney dialysis for many years, a process that was demanding both physically and emotionally. Yet, true to her nature, she never wanted to burden anyone. She avoided asking for help, preferring to maintain her independence, and rarely […]
🔥 What If Playing Small Is Costing You Everything?
Brother, let’s talk truth.Not the filtered, polished truth we post online…The real truth.The one we whisper to ourselves late at night when no one’s watching. What if playing small is costing you everything? Your peace.Your power.Your purpose. We’ve all been there.Living a “good enough” life.Checking the boxes.Making things look fine on the outside — while […]